We've all been through things alike and share more then you realize.

No one should talk down on someone, because you don't know that you're not going through the same exact things or have gone through what each other has been through. We're all at different points in our lives, but that doesn't mean that you or someone else won't succeed in something. Just because you've seen someone struggle absolutely does not mean that they can't make it through it or claim it as a victory. You may be exactly where I was or am, or vise versa. Life is hard, things get tough, and that's why we should be lifting people up and offering a helping hand not extending negative input and discouraging words. You can make a quick assumption to just turn out looking like a fool if you don't first assess the whole situation and read the whole story first before forming your final judgement. And I am talking about real judging, not the boohoo only God can judge me stuff. Which is crap.. We come to judgements every day. It's part of life and it's not wrong, we just go about things selfishly most times and people get hurt/offended and thus statement about only God can judge me was created. But I just advise you all to stop and with a tender, caring heart take a look around and think about how many different possibilities there are without snapping to an abrupt conclusion about someone or something. I know I have definitely been doing a lot more with compassion, passion, love and patience.